Thursday, June 19, 2014

Kiss and Tell

 Do people kiss on the first date?

 That's a serious question. Y'all know I don't know what's hot in the streets so I wanna know if that's what's going down these days.

I has many questions.
How long do you wait before you Google the person?
(Don't act like it's just me.) I ain't the only one who thinks God made Google for a reason.
But then I am always afraid of dudes Googling me and finding my blog before I tell them. I don't like the idea of them reading it before I'm ready. So maybe I shouldn't be Googling folks? #Hush


 How soon do you become Facebook friends? Do you even become Facebook friends? How soon before you share that you like ratchet music?

Dress: Gap
Bag: Prada
Shoes: BCBG

I really need to know bout this kissing thing! For research purposes of course.....So let a sistah know.


Sing of Singature Style said...

Diggin that dress!

Ticka said...

Being that this is for research purposes, I must say that yes. People do kiss on the first date. I'm not talking a Ready for the World, Let Me Love You Down kiss (just showed my age,smh). But a nice peck should do just fine.

I don't know about the whole social media aspect since I haven't dated in the era of FB (showing my age again, ugh). Good luck with that.

Also, I found a nice little tip. If you search a persons IG handle in Google Images, it will pull all pictures that the person has liked and/or commented on. Shhhhhhhh!! Now I ain't the one to gossip, so you didn't hear that from me.

btw, I love that dress. I'm such a sucker for stripes.

Anonymous said...

I google them before the first date. I also search the county clerk's website for child support, marriage, and criminal history. I hug on the first date. I'm not on facebook so

Style & Poise said...

Love the dress. You look lovely!


Serenity Love Sincere Peace Earth said...

I've done all the dating I want to do. If my current relationship doesn't work out, I'll be good with alone. It's scary out there...

Do as much googling as possible. That's why it's there. If you are allowing him to come to your house and plan to ride in his car... take a pic of him and the plate and forward it to someone who will notice and report you missing. Have a friend you can call to come get you if you need it. Preferably a big dude or a crazy looking female friend. You want him to NOT follow you and a small lightweight friend may not pose the same threat. Yes you can kiss on the 1st date, but dudes are looking for chicks who is dtf. Rethink letting this man come to your home, that's how stalkers are born. And believe... all men stalk.

Be careful. You look amazing in that dress. And post another blog soon so we know you didn't get got....

YoyosFashions said...

You look great as always!! Lovely dress!!

My Kurves said...

First time visiting your blog and Yes; people kiss on the first date. Not the tongue bath kinda kiss just a peck on closed lips. Enjoy your Life!

Cheri said...

Kiss? Depends how the date went. Can learn if 1. a gentleman won't try to tongue you, 2. if he's a good kisser. Who wants to be in a relationship with a guy that can't kiss? ijs

Google? Heck yeah! It's a tool, use it! How many parents, women and guys wish had Google back in the day? A friend found out her date to be had a record.

BTW Nice look!

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antonia said...

if i like them, they're getting kissed. and i google them as soon as i find out their last name. oh, and i never friend anyone on fb that i'm dating (casually). but i may stalk their page. and ratchet music...yeah i don't live in atl anymore so i don't have to worry about that confession lol.

Ms. Tee said...

Cute dress!

I don't kiss on the first date. I believe if he is a gentleman, he'll wait. :)

Umm, for what other purpose are people using Google? LOL. I say Google away. If you don't find anything strange, that's hopefully a good sign.

A few months passed before I accepted the Facebook friend request of my then-boyfriend, now fiancé. Lol. I just didn't like the idea if him trying to get to know me via my pics and status updates. I just read a novel that touches on that matter...On the Rocks by Erin Duffy.

Good luck with your, umm, research. :)

Kara said...

I only met my fiance a couple of years ago and I'm of the young age of 45 years old - navigating the dating thing was a little scary at first.

We did not kiss until the 3rd date. I never did google him because he was so upfront about his past - (plus we knew mutual people.) His past wasn't pretty, but he was honest and I liked what he had to say about it.

I think we FB'ed pretty early but neither of us had really much on our pages so that was pretty boring.

We went slow and just got to know each other. But we were engaged after about 9 months. It just felt right and still does. He never let me question how he felt about me. And he still does a lot of the same things. I'm glad I didn't let his "past" scare me away.

Love the dress and good luck. :)

High Heels & Good Meals! said...

Cute dress!

Elle @ (Eat.Style.Play) said...

I'm pro google. I do kiss on the first date if it went well. I don't want anybody googling me though haha.

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