Sunday, August 12, 2012

Growth Spurt

I have been trying to get my head wrapped around a lot of things that have happened in the past two weeks. I guess the recurring theme is that people are fallible. We all mess up, we make mistakes, we act out when we feel vulnerable or afraid and we sometimes hurt people that we care about.

But as Maya Angelou says, "Once you know better you do better." I would like to hope that I am continually growing and changing into the person I hope to be.

I try not to make the same mistakes that I've made in the past. Easy to say but hard to do. But I still do. But I am not the same person that I was even three years ago, I know that my heart has been healed and I am stronger for everything that I have experienced and struggled with. And for that I am grateful.

But I still struggle. Yes I am impatient, I sometimes speak my mind to those I care about and don't temper my words with kindness, I have moments of impetuousness.

But I would like to hope that if people say anything about me is that I always try. As hard as it has been. As it continues to be. To be better.

I think that trying is the key. I don't ever want to be complacent and think that I don't have more growing to do.
Earrings: Aldo
Top: Zara
Skirt: Asos
Glasses: RayBan 5199
Bag: Rummage Sale
Bracelets: InPink/Forever 21
Shoes: Nine West


“I want to grow. I want to be better. You Grow. We all grow. We're made to grow.You either evolve or you disappear.” ~Tupac Shakur


Jarette said...

love that bag....

Whitney James said...

you look lovely! all the colors are great, and that bag is NICE!!

you're so right...trying is key. change is hard but as long as you'r making a conscious effort, that's what matters ;-)


Ondreu said...

Growth to me is tending to your roots and taking care of your ends this ensures development. Your growth is radiantly showing. I love the outfit.

YoyosFashions said...

Love the color combo!! You look great!!

I wanna be fierce said...

You look absolutely amazing!


Ms. Tee said...

Love this outfit! The color blocking, the accessories, and those silver shoes! I find myself in deep thought on a regular basis about things people say and do and realize I am constantly growing as a person. I thank God for that!

Consider Me Lovely said...

Growth is a continuing process of life. We all having growing to do, so thankfully you're growing and not remaining stagnant. Now that the deep stuff is done with, can we talk about how FABULOUS this look is?!!

ari said...

Well said. Lovely outfit.

Ticka said...

Great post. Growth is most certainly essential to life.

Very cute top! I love that color on you!

Tammie said...

I love the wisdom behind your words...Knowledge is nothing without wisdom. I like the way you used metalics to make this look POP! so pretty!

Carsedra McKoy said...

I love your outfit!! Great message, if you don't grow then you're dead, as long as we live we always have room to grow!!

Carsedra of:

IMPR(4L)ess said...

I absolutely love this outfit!! I need to add this top to my wardrobe!!


Stunning dear

Kerissa said...

I need to grow! I remember the old me that would cling to hope and fight for the future. Thanks for giving me something to consider regarding personal growth & an outfit. I do lover the colors. Just untrusted a skirt that's a, similar color. Can I just day this is s sexy office look? It is!

Nikki said...

Love love love the clutch! Great blog.

Camila Maria said...

That clutch is awesome! Loving the colors in this ensemble!!!!!!!!



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