Tuesday, April 02, 2013

Clap Back

  Did you ever have someone try and take you there?


  Lawd knows I'm trying to do right but people be messing with me, I swear fo Gawd yall! I recently had someone (an ex of a guy that I used to date) post a reply directed at me after I commented on a mutual's friend's Facebook page (I didn't realize that we had a mutual friend until this happened.) I have never interacted with her, I never did anything wrong to her so initially I was like "Whhhhhhhaaaaaaa???" but then I got mad. This chick was not on my radar of even potentially having anything against me. I started to reply to her but since I'm trying to be different like 2 Chainz all I did was "Like" her comment (Reiko's idea, lol.) But these are the things I wanted to say:
 
1. Awwwwww, you mad? ------>#SheMad #ButWhy?

2. Who wears workout clothes to the beach but you not working out? #WearingYourPlayClothes

3. Where they do this at? I thought this type of behavior was out of style.

4. What you should be mad about is your hair and wardrobe choices. A bodycon dress and a string of pearls? #Maam #YouPlayTooMuch #YallPlayingHideAndSeek

5. Who are you again?

But I didn't. Aren't y'all proud of me? Don't I get props for that? She triiiiiiieeeeed it though. It took all that was in me not to tell her off. I'm telling you I had heat all up in my chest. And I heard that your IQ drops 50 points when you're angry and I needs all my points!
 
I just feel that as women we should be better than that, playing petty, juvenile games while the the guy gets off scott free. If you know what type of dude you're involved with and you've determined that he is no good for you but you keep going back, then that's shame on you BooBoo. (That made me laugh out loud.) If he lies to you then most likely he lied to me so I don't know why you would even remotely be upset with me. And most importantly we are not 12, so ask questions if you want to know something. Ain't nobody got time to play these games (well I don't, but I don't know her life.) 
But "Don't come for me unless I send for you."
(Again. Laughed out loud.)
There was a time when I would have gone there with her and it would not have been pretty. But I have too many other things to concentrate on. And she should too. Because if they are back together she should concentrate on that instead of me. But if it is all the bomb dot com then she wouldn't be worried about me in the first place. I am just trying to live an awesome existence.
AND.WE.ARE. TOO.OLD.FOR.THIS! *claps hands in between each word*


Dress: Thrifted
Bag: Zara
Shoes: Michael Kors

There are some things that we just shouldn't do once we are over the age 25. Fighting in clubs, calling and hanging up in someone's face repeatedly and having social media wars are a few examples. Woman up.

28 comments:

Dawnya said...

I love your dress. You and Reiko are changed women...because folks are playing games.

Now I'm not changed...so if you want to give me her info I will surely make her feel 2 inches tall. LOL

Keep doing you boo...you are too fab for the drama.

Toni Carr said...

I absolutely love this dress what a fabulous find!! And about this situation you a abetted woman for not going there! You crack me up tho, we all have had this kind of issue with the new chick of the ex or the old ex but they are not worth the energy or ur anger. Keep it moving always lol... You look gorgeous as always .

Toni

Dee said...

Don't come for me unless I send for you - I died

hulonce@gmail.com said...
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Ellie said...

Love your look and love your message. Be the bigger person- well done! Ellie

GFS said...

All I can do is laugh!

Now sing with me,

"I'm different, yeah I'm different! PUll up to the scene with my ceiling missing. Middle finger up to my competition!"

We are so classy huh! I have a dance to it and everything!

Good job on not clapping back! People are TRYIIIIINGGG it everywhere!

ANd that dress is epic! EPIC!

Consider Me Lovely said...

This look is giving me retro 70's fabulousness!!!! Bravo to you for being the grown woman about it, nobody has time for foolishness!

Yoli said...
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Yoli said...

CLASS. DISMISSED. (claps in between each word) LOL!

Chiquita Nate' said...

Love your dress!

Sing of Singature Style said...

That dress was made for you! What a find.

Hope Grant said...

I am so glad you didn't reply, that would have given her more satisfaction!! But um as for that mixed print dress YASSSSSS!

droyster1219 said...

Gone let her have it in the "Grown Woman way" then kindly step to the side.....

melissa ward said...

Love it

mommyKE said...

You Better Work!

theurbanemaven said...

Girl, love that dress. So relevant and on trend!

Unknown said...

Mad, mad props on being the bigger person! Love the outfit!

YoyosFashions said...

Girl I love you!! Love your blog!! Props on being the bigger person!! You rock! Btw love the outfit!! Gorgeous!!

Anonymous said...

Girl, live your life hard!!! No time for ridiculousness.

Marie Young said...

I love that dress lady! Very cute. Lol at IQ dropping 50 points. Mine must flatline when I'm mad....

Www.goodlooknout.com

Anonymous said...

dont come for me unless i send for you....adding that to my collection! LOL and your right...later for stupidity (she is sooo bothered by you) the dress was gorg - you werking it.

Simplybee said...

Girl I almost peed my pants! She BETTA recognize cuz "J" is having none of that nonsense! Lmao!!! I luv luv your retro dress!

Michelle said...

Kudos to you! You look fabulous by the way.

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heavenlyhummingbird said...

You are too funny!!!.....Love the dress & the blog..... I'm stalking on my lunch break lol

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