Saturday, June 15, 2013


I heard a guy at a party say that he was "a real man"

 I told him that a 'real man' wouldn't have to say that they're a real man. It's kinda like bragging about your sex life, if you got it like that then you wouldn't have to brag about it. This guy also wore shades inside the party, called me siddity and harassed every woman in the place. And if you know one thing about me it's that I am not stuck up but I will choose to ignore those who are stupid. 
(Or say some unmentionable things to you, lol.) 

Really it all comes down to confidence in my opinion. Bragging comes from a lack of self-confidence and need for outside approval. I once worked with a teacher's aide who would say "Yeah I went to get the Lexus washed this weekend and I saw my cousin." Really sir??? You call your car by the make of it?? Maybe that's what's hot in the streets these days, maybe I'm the only one who isn't calling my car by it's make and model. #ImLate #DontKnowWhatsHotInTheStreets

I think that the older I've gotten, the more confident I've become and the less I care about what people may think of my life. My life is exactly what it is meant to be at this time. Now Lord knows I have my days when I feel unsure, especially when it comes to dating and relationships but confidence for me is a by-product of experience, and being authentic.
 If you're being authentic that is simply your soul shining through.

Earrings: Aldo Accessories
Dress: Marshalls (old)
Bag: Prada
Shoes: Marshalls

"If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life." ~Marcus Garvey

And because I want everyone to get their life so hard, PLEASE check out this video of dancing park ranger John Griffith that I saw on It is e.ver.ry.thing. You're welcome...


I wanna be fierce said...

I love visiting your blog. Not only do I walk away with great fashion inspiration but you always seem to give eye opening messages. The kind of messages that make you think and share with others. Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom.

JuliN said...

Thank you for the vid link. I totally didn't see that coming!
& you are totally right. People who have to talk about their cars & other ppossessions to impress usually don't have much else going on.

Melanie said...

Get it John!

Anonymous said...

I check on an almost daily basis to see what you have posted. I love your outfits, your gorgeous smile, and your hilarious take on life as a woman who's just living and getting her life so hard. You are inspirational and you don't even know it

Ms. Tee said...

You and that dress are gorgeous! I agree with your comments re: confidence. Both of those guys would've annoyed me. Thanks for sharing the park ranger video...hilarious! I would love to see you to take your commentary to YouTube! :)

laniza said...

Firstly, your dress is gorgeous and perfect for summer! Secondly, that park ranger was getting it!! Haha!

Tammie said...

And I quote: "confidence for me is a by-product of experience, and being authentic."

Yes LORD! You look amazing in that dress! Perfect outfit t beat the summer heat!

Sing of Singature Style said...

What a great dress.

Natalie Live said...

Been loving your braids! They go beautifully with your Summer styles :)

Carsedra McKoy said...

Great post, on point as always!

Loving this dress, so cute and fun!!!

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his_girl_friday said...

A) I love this dress
B) It is not okay for anyone to wear sunglasses at night/inside ever
C) Insecure people can be exhausting if they are trying really hard not to appear insecure
D) I like your blog

Sunny LouisvilleSlugger said...

I love your blog! P.S. Fierce dress and I agree about the bragging.



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