I was having a conversation with a friend and she was telling me that she gets approached by men all the time. She said that it's because she has a "yes" face....
Huh???? A what?!?! What the heck is a "yes" face? That's what I said too! She said that she makes herself approachable to guys and that her face gives them the go ahead to talk to her.
She then recounted an episode of when we went to the grocery store together and she said that a guy was looking at me. She said that she told me that the guy was checking me out and my response was "Well he better say something then." She said that because I didn't make eye contact, smile or show any interest, that's why the guy didn't say anything to me. That being approachable is what's called the "yes" face. She said that men do not want to be rejected and that they need a cue that you are inviting them to talk to you.
Necklaces: Belts worn as necklaces
Shirt: Thrifted (Men's department)
Shoes: Jessica Simpson
I told her that I disagreed with her assessment, that I thought that I was very approachable. I smile and make eye contact and will sometimes have conversations with random dudes. But most guys will just look and not say anything. But I am of the opinion that if a guy wants to talk to you, he's going do it.
But in the meantime, I'm gonna work on my yes face.....
Is this a real thing? Do you believe that you have a "yes" face? Do you believe that men need a cue to approach you?