People make lots of assumptions about me and my life....
Apparently word on the street is that I am some jet-setting social butterfly with lots of options for male companionship. Now the social butterfly part is correct but the rest of it...
...not so much....Well I have options, I just choose not to exercise some of the options that I have available to me. Just because you can do something doesn't mean that you should...
One of the teachers at school and our security officer had a whole conversation (in front of me I might add) about the fact that I probably have a different date every night and that guys are ringing my phone off the hook. When I told them that is not the case, they both said "Yeah right."
Like *You ain't got to lie Craig! faces.*
The same teacher at school offered to set me up with one of his friends, but the only information that he had is what church the guy attends. He doesn't know where he works or what he does, he told me that the guy always has a pocketful of cash (a bad sign in my opinion) and then he remembered that the guy has been married three times. See how people give no damns about who they want to set me up with?
"Yall both breathing, why you being so picky?"
A guy from my gym sent me a message on Facebook and after a couple of exchanges said that I have an intimidating look about myself as if I'm already with someone and that guys probably save themselves from getting turned down by not approaching me. *Sidenote: WHO does that? Just says, awww forget it, she look like she got somebody, I ain't e'em gonna try it.*
He said that I have that look of a woman that a man has already snatched up and wifed already. That he took me as someone with a man.
I don't know how to look un-snatched up. Do I walk around doing "The Single Ladies" dance, waving my hand to and fro, hither and yon? Wear a shirt that says "Ain't nobody wifed me yet"?
Reiko said I should be posting outfit photos of my gym outfits since that's where guys talk to me but that has not happened nearly as much as she lets on. But I do have a pair of "lucky" gym pants that I wear some days, my booty is looking riiiiggghhhhtttt in those....Maybe I'll just start wearing my gym clothes randomly around town, I hear some women do that. No gym, just gym clothes.
I had a conversation with a friend, I told her that I don't want to have any roadblocks to deter me from my destiny. I am constantly working on making myself a better me. I've tried to put past hurts and disappointments behind me, I have forgiven (but not forgotten) the lessons that I've learned and I am open to possibilities. So I leave it up to the universe. And pray that whoever (whomever?) is sent is exactly what is meant for me.
But can I just say that subject/verb agreement is very important to me? Really. It is. Ask around, my friends will tell you.
And I guess he shouldn't make assumptions. About who I am and what my life is like. That I am not a wifed up woman. And ask whatever it is that he wants to know.
Striped top: Marshalls
Skirt (worn as a dress): Asos
"Don't Make Assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life." ~Miguel Angel Ruiz